"If a man does not make new acquaintances as he advances through life, he will soon find himself alone. A man should keep his friendships in constant repair. "
"Be courteous to all, but intimate with few, and let those few be well tried before you give them your confidence. True friendship is a plant of slow growth, and must undergo and withstand the shocks of adversity before it is entitled to the appellation."
Here are 2 quotes i would like to share to ya ppl...and i kinda give credit to
quotationspage.com for this stuff ya...anyway why all of a sudden come up with this topic...well i guess in its abt time i kinda discuss it and wonder wat you ppl think...i mean in my case here...if you guys hv been following my entries that i m havin kinda a hard time havin ppl whom i can depend on and ppl who can really cheer you on and are always by your side....and thats why while surfin the net over some time i stumbled and kinda felt for this 2 quotes....i mean in the first quote i guess describes my situation now...and the second quote speaks abt how friendship be built...i mean...ya...rite now i m just stumped you noe...stumped at the fact that i cant really say much now becoz i guess a part of me has begun to beat again...and feelin this surge of warmth i guess its kinda grt...anyway...i may not be able to understand my situation rite now...but i noe i still can depend on ppl out there...esp those who make the effort to tag on my board and put that simple hi's and simple jokes like i tagged etc...i mean i realised in life...you gotta work for everything...its effort to keep a friend...it takes communication to keep that friendship goin...it also takes alot of understandin and trust...well anyway...i guess it lies in me...this thoughts of bitterness of not havin friends...i guess its my fault in a way for not opening up...but anyway...i guess i m kinda goin outa pt...really...but to tell ya the truth...i guess ppl really dont know me...maybe wat they see on the outside is not really me...but i guess its just me becoz i always judge ppl b4 anythin else...i mean its been 6mths since i really talked to one of my classmate and realised he is just like me in some way...well in my life rite now...the real friends are those who really are willing to go through thick or thin....but thats kinda cliche'...i noe...but i guess it just takes effort...everythin does....anywy...update...i guess honestly rite now...i just need to focus...and stop procratinatin...and stop all those negativity...i shd just persevere...becoz thats wat my secondary sch life taught me...and i guess endurance is one thing i hv lost....and i believe that...i noe myself better than anyone else...and i noe i m better than wat i really am...i noe...but it no use uttering all this if i dont do it...and i guess when we lose ourselves sometimes...its best if we remember those who were really there for us...like a friend...ya...and dont give them a hard time...coz guess tats wat i hv been doin...and in terms of trust...i guess based on the qoute...it takes time to build it...but i guess like i say again or havent said...i may noe alot of ppl....but few are only friends...and frm that few....a handful are close friends...and out of that handful...a spec are best friends...out of that spec...only 3 are within me...and out of that 3...2 are in my heart....out of that 2...only one lives in there...so i push this to you...which one of this categories do you belong in...anyway...i m sure who my friends are and i guess you guys too hv to be sure...and i guess no matter which category u belong in i just wanna end with this quote i found on the same website....
"My mother used to say that there are no strangers, only friends you haven't met yet. She's now in a maximum security twilight home in Australia."
Dame Edna Everage
well to end...i just wanna say that...in everything i have done in my life...in every joy,tear and success...there is always those special ppl who hv helped me all the way...and those are friends...be it a classmate or a teacher...or even ur enemy...a friend is always there...and i guess it up to me now to find the rite friends to depend on...and of course smile more often...for there is much more reason to smile now...well...its gonna be a tough wk for me now... as i hv to prepare myself again for the term tests...and gotta prove my worth again to those i hv disappointed...ya...anyway here are some quiz i took...ya...
You're Skittles!!! You have a very interesting
personality, you're so unique. You're the kind
of person who always thinks outside of the box.
You're also a very accepting individual, and
believe in inner beauty.
Which kind of candy are you? brought to you by Quizilla
You should be wearing the colour....Orange!
Orange, is a very happy colour, it spreads
cheer everywhere. Orange stimulates
conversation and optimism. Since you love to
have fun, and be around others who share the
same quality, orange will make you shine!
What colour should you be wearing? brought to you by Quizilla
Your sign of frustration is....Well, nothing. You
never get frustrated, which is very odd.
Nothing bothers you, and you act very sensible
when you are faced with a problem. Remember
though, that it is alright to get frustrated on
certain occasions, for it is only natural.
What sign of frustration are you? brought to you by Quizilla
LOVING ONE. You need safety in your relationship.
You want to be sure in his/her arms, knowing
that he will protect you and you can be totally
devoted to your other. At this point you are
very vulnerable. You open yourself and dont
even think that he/she could cheat you. You
totally trust your partner in every single way.
SO if you find out that she/he lied to you or
played a game this trust is broken. You may try
to forgive your other but this will be very
difficult.He/She has to be friendly and
trustworthy.PLEASE VOTE, I want to know what you think about my
quiz, I worked hard on it.You can always message me or tell me how I can
improve that quiz. Ill sure write back.
~THE big LOVE TEST!! What do you need? With PICS! For girls and boys!~ brought to you by Quizilla
ok a bit of a disclaimer here ar...wat this quizes say may not be true lar...i took it over the past few days...but somehow coincidental they are...anyway abt the last one....with that pic...dun get offended ok...ya...i mean...if its too much too take...then...just hmmm...scoll down....ya...anyway...dats it...
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